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Cuckooing

Cuckooing happens when criminals take over someone’s home to use it for crime. This can include drug dealing, storing drugs, or making drugs.

 

There are two main types of exploitation:

  1. Cuckooing – Criminals take over a person’s home for drug-related activity.
  2. Mate Crime – Criminals pretend to be someone’s friend to exploit them. This can include taking money, using their home, or forcing them to do things they don’t want to do.

 

People affected often feel they have no choice but to go along with it. Threats or violence are often used to keep control. Many victims believe the criminals are their friends or fear losing their home if they ask for help.

 

Cuckooing and mate crime can happen in any type of home – rented or owned.

Getting Help

 

If you think someone is a victim of cuckooing or mate crime, refer them to the Cuckooing Support Team at BCP WithYou by email.

 

bcpcuckooingteam@wearewithyou.org.uk

 

Any professional can make a referral if they believe someone is being exploited or at serious risk. You can find our referral forms for professionals at the bottom of the page.

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How Does Cuckooing Happen?

 

Criminals look for people who are isolated or struggling. They may offer free drugs at first, then use threats or violence. Victims may be forced to let criminals use their home or help with drug dealing. Sexual exploitation can also happen.

 

Drug gangs often use several homes and move quickly to avoid the police. This can lead to more crime and anti-social behaviour in the area.

 

Children linked to cuckooed homes are at high risk of harm, including exposure to drugs, violence, weapons, and sexual exploitation.

 

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Who is at Risk?

Victims are often lonely or isolated. They may have drug or alcohol problems, health issues, or other challenges. They might not see themselves as victims.

People affected can include:

  • Older adults
  • People with learning disabilities
  • People with physical or mental health problems
  • Sex workers
  • Single parents

How Does Mate Crime Happen?

 

Mate crime is when someone pretends to be a friend but then exploits the person. This can include:

 

  • Stealing money or possessions
  • Forcing them to work or commit crimes
  • Pressuring them into spending money or giving things away
  • Sexual exploitation

 

The abuser may use threats, insults, physical harm, or stop the person getting help.

 

Mate crime can happen to anyone who struggles to spot a fake friend. It often affects people who are socially isolated, but it can also happen online.

 

Signs of Cuckooing and Mate Crime

 

Look out for:

  • Lots of visitors at all hours
  • Strangers buzzing for entry or doors left open
  • More cars, bikes, or scooters outside for short visits
  • Litter or groups hanging around
  • Signs of drug use – smells or equipment
  • Changes in behaviour – avoiding support or friends
  • Excuses for not seeing family or professionals
  • Social withdrawal
  • Disappearing without telling anyone
  • Being controlled by a “friend”
  • New people staying at the property
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